A GRIEF THAT JUST WON’T LET GO — Only days after laying their beloved daughter and sister to rest, the Faulkner family is being forced to confront another devastating loss, as they prepare for yet another funeral and a community in Limerick is left shaken… but what they discovered on his personal phone — a chilling fragment of a note — is now raising even more questions than answers… Read more

Jason Faulkner, a man in his 30s described by friends as a gentle ‘angel’ with a heart of gold, passed away over the weekend – a mere two days after he served as a pallbearer at the heartbreaking funeral of his younger sister, Scarlett Faulkner.

The 29-year-old mother-of-one was laid to rest on Friday at St Munchin’s Church in Limerick city following a three-week battle for life after she suffered catastrophic head injuries in an alleged roadside assault in nearby Co Tipperary. Hundreds gathered to say goodbye to the ‘sleeping beauty’ and devoted mum, with tributes pouring in for her warm smile and loving nature.

But in a cruel twist of fate that has stunned Ireland, Jason – who had helped carry his sister’s coffin with heavy heart and visible emotion – was found dead on Sunday evening. His body was recovered from the Abbey River in Limerick, plunging the already devastated family into fresh unimaginable sorrow.

Cousin Melissa McCarthy broke the devastating news on social media on Sunday evening, her words raw with pain and disbelief.

‘My heart, 2 days after burying your sister Scarlett, you’re gone now Jason, her lovely brother,’ she wrote. ‘The laughs we had, oh Jason what are the family gonna do? I can’t get my head round it, no doubt Scarlett Faulkner was there to meet you – together again forever.’

She added a desperate plea: ‘Please keep my aunt Mary and Banny and family in yere prayers.’

Another relative echoed the collective shock in a heartbreaking post: ‘Sad world we live in – poor Banny and Mary buried their daughter Scarlett two days ago and now their son – God may mind them keep them strong pray for all the family again this is a painful world – rest in peace Jason.’

Tributes have continued to flood in for Jason, with one friend calling him an ‘angel’ who has now joined his sister in heaven.

‘So heartbreaking, two lovely angels gone to heaven – rest in peace Jason Faulkner my heart goes out to your family. God wrap your arms around Banny, Mary and family,’ another mourner wrote.

A third added: ‘This is just beyond devastating, the nation needs to keep the Faulkner family in their thoughts and prayers, how much heartache can this family take?’

The Faulkner family, part of Limerick’s tight-knit Traveller community from the Longpavement Halting Site, is said to be ‘hearts in bits’ as they face a second funeral in less than a week. Jason’s service is expected to take place later this week, with loved ones describing the double loss as ‘so cruel and shocking’.

Scarlett’s tragic final weeks

Scarlett Faulkner’s own story was one of unimaginable suffering. The young mum was critically injured on March 21 when she was allegedly assaulted on the side of the R494 road near the village of Birdhill in Co Tipperary.

Reports suggest she suffered catastrophic head injuries, reportedly from an iron bar, leaving her fighting for her life at Cork University Hospital. She remained on life support for three long weeks before her family made the agonising decision to turn it off. She passed away on April 13, surrounded by those who loved her most.

At her funeral last Friday, the church was packed with hundreds of mourners paying their respects to the ‘devoted mother’ and ‘Daddy’s girl and Mommy’s world’.

Her sister Victoria delivered an emotional eulogy, describing Scarlett as ‘our sleeping beauty’ and promising justice.

‘You were Daddy’s girl and Mommy’s world, we will love you forever, our sleeping beauty, from your ten sisters and five brothers, and most importantly your beautiful daughter Oceanna, who you loved dearly, the same way she loved you,’ Victoria told the congregation, who burst into applause when she vowed: ‘We promise you sister, we will get the justice you deserve.’

Priests who officiated the Mass have since spoken of the ‘silent sitting’ and profound grief in the family home in the days that followed.

Canon Dónal McNamara, who led Scarlett’s funeral, visited the family again after Jason’s passing and expressed his heartbreak at the latest blow.

A family torn apart

The Faulkners are a large, close-knit clan – Scarlett had ten sisters and five brothers – and the community has rallied around them in the wake of the twin tragedies.

Yet the pain is almost too much to bear. One local described the scenes as the saddest they had ever witnessed: a brother carrying his sister’s coffin one day, only to be gone himself 48 hours later.

Jason, who lived at the Longpavement Halting Site, was remembered fondly by those who knew him. Friends spoke of his kind nature and the laughter he brought to family gatherings. Now, that laughter has been silenced, leaving an aching void.

‘I’ve never seen sadder in my life,’ one person posted after seeing footage of Jason helping to carry Scarlett’s coffin.

As the family prepares for Jason’s funeral, they have also issued a heartfelt warning to well-wishers: beware of fake fundraising pages popping up online in the wake of the deaths. Scammers have tried to exploit the tragedy, but the family stressed they ‘have each other’ and urged people not to donate to unauthorised appeals.

Questions remain

Gardaí are investigating the circumstances surrounding Jason’s death, with a postmortem due to take place. His body was recovered from the Abbey River on Sunday evening, and emergency services attended the scene.

While details remain limited, the timing has only deepened the sense of profound loss for a family already coping with the alleged violent death of Scarlett.

Two women – a teenage girl and a woman in her 40s – have appeared in court in connection with the alleged assault on Scarlett, though proceedings are ongoing.

The wider Limerick and Traveller communities have expressed collective sorrow, with many asking how one family could endure so much pain in such a short space of time.

‘Life is so cruel,’ one tribute read.

Priests who have been supporting the family spoke of hearts going out to Mary and Banny – the parents now mourning both a daughter and a son in quick succession.

‘There was a lot of silent sitting last night,’ one cleric remarked, painting a picture of a household enveloped in quiet, overwhelming grief.

Remembering two bright lights

Scarlett was remembered at her funeral not just for her tragic end, but for the love she poured into her young daughter Oceanna and her role as a devoted mother.

Jason, too, leaves behind a legacy of family loyalty – stepping up to carry his sister’s coffin in her final journey, only to embark on his own far too soon.

Cousin Melissa’s words capture the raw hope amid the despair: that Scarlett was waiting to meet Jason, and that the siblings are ‘together again forever’.

As Limerick prepares for another funeral this week, the outpouring of prayers and tributes continues unabated.

‘God wrap your arms around Banny, Mary and family,’ one message pleaded.

The Faulkner family has asked for privacy as they navigate this latest unbearable chapter, but the nation’s thoughts remain firmly with them.

In a world that can feel unbearably painful, as one relative put it, the story of Scarlett and Jason Faulkner stands as a heartbreaking reminder of life’s fragility – and the unbreakable bonds of love that endure even in the darkest times.

Two siblings, taken too soon. A family left to pick up the pieces. And a community united in sorrow, praying for strength for a mother and father who have lost so much in such a cruelly short space of time.

May they both rest in peace – together at last.

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